The Rules

Above all, people are required to respect each other

True dialog starts with respect

No interruptions without corrections

Don't talk over each other unless you're asking for clarification

No talking points without explanations

Talking points without facts are not useful

Don't talk around questions

We're not politicians, so let's address questions directly

Hypotheticals are allowed, but not if you use them to trap someone

Hypotheticals can be good in the right context

Recognize the legitimacy of the other side

It's a lost art to try and understand why people think differently

Attempt to come together on common ground if there are differences in viewpoints

Disagreement is fine, but we should look for commonalities

The primary goal is to explain viewpoints, not to change minds

And yelling or ridicule never changes minds anyway

We should still be friends at the end of the episode

What happens in the conversation, stays in the conversation


Questions for Every Guest

What position do you have that doesn't align with typical stereotypes of being conservative | liberal | progressive | libertarian | whatever you are?

What's next? What do we do? Action instead of words.